{"id":2287,"date":"2022-12-08T15:37:05","date_gmt":"2022-12-08T15:37:05","guid":{"rendered":""},"modified":"2022-12-08T15:37:09","modified_gmt":"2022-12-08T15:37:09","slug":"when-understanding-only-comes-from-the-outside","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/variousbits.net\/2022\/12\/08\/when-understanding-only-comes-from-the-outside\/","title":{"rendered":"When understanding only comes from the outside"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

I had a thought in the shower this morning. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

It’s this: there are some things that you can only understand when you’ve looked at them from the outside. By outside<\/em> I mean from a perspective that is different to the one when you’re in it<\/em>. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Take social media. I was in<\/em> Twitter right from the off, a crack-style addict for many years. I’d sucked on other socialz, done them all, maaaaan, but Twitter was it<\/em> for me for many years. And then I had a bit of a run-in with someone and had a bit of a revelation: this place wasn’t nice any more, it wasn’t even vaguely fun any more, and I had an issue with my relationship with it. So I gave it up for a bit, and then a bit longer (I’d had previous givings-up<\/a> but had always come back..) and then after a couple of years I just deleted my profile and…what a relief. I couldn’t be happier that that shit isn’t in my head any more.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Same with Instagram. Same (long time ago) with Faceplant. Oh, and WhatsApp.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

From out here in my life, where there isn’t much social media in sight, in there<\/em> looks like a terrible clusterfuck. There’s a loony running it, loonies wanting to hold each other to ransom over the tiniest little slip, other loonies demanding free speech<\/a> for all and some insane wokies being insane and woke and calling everyone who disagrees with them “Nazis” or “Fascists”.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

But – ask pretty much everyone what they’d do without Twitter \/ Insta \/ Facebook and they look at you funny, like you’d just suggested they hand over one of their limbs. Without being outside it, the outside looks insane.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Or – another example:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

When we lived in London, we could see no way that anything existed<\/em> outside of London. Salaries looked appalling. There was no way on earth that we’d be able to afford it – how on earth could anyone live on \u00a3X-20% of \u00a3X?? How could we survive without all those galleries and buses and tubes and STUFF?<\/p>\n\n\n